{"id":849,"date":"2019-03-02T14:23:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-02T13:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/enviedeprier.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=849"},"modified":"2019-03-02T14:23:00","modified_gmt":"2019-03-02T13:23:00","slug":"6-why-praying-is-difficult-sometimes","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/enviedeprier.com\/wordpress\/en\/cultivate-your-prayer-life\/6-why-praying-is-difficult-sometimes\/","title":{"rendered":"6. Why praying is difficult sometimes"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">1. I can\u2019t concentrate<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Each time I start to pray, all sorts of thoughts come into my head: \u201cI need to pay that bill\u201d, \u201cI must remember to phone that person\u201d, \u201cmy neighbour hasn\u2019t returned my mower\u201d etc. and I ruin my prayer time. Often my prayer time is interrupted, I stop praying and get caught up with other things !<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: before you start to pray, make sure you have a piece of paper and a pencil to hand. As soon as a \u201cparasitical\u201d thought enters your mind, write it down. Note down all these thoughts on paper. Once you have finished praying, you can transform these thoughts into subjects for prayer and create a list of things to do during the day, grouping them based on their priority.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">2. I don\u2019t feel like praying<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>When I don\u2019t have any urgent needs to present to God, I often don\u2019t feel like praying. However, I know that I am always in need of the wisdom, power, direction, and influence of the Holy Spirit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: as the old saying goes \u201cthe more you have the more you want\u201d. We don\u2019t just eat because we want to but because our bodies need the food. Our soul needs this contact with God through prayer. In a short prayer, you can express how you feel to God. David was aware of the need for purification and an internal transformation which only God can achieve: \u201cRestore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.\u201d (Psalms 51:12).<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">3. Praying seems like a chore<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I have been praying for years but it has become a legalist chore. I pray so as not to feel guilty! I pray about the same topics, I say the same things; it\u2019s tiresome, repetitive and boring.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: create a plan to add variety and a bit of \u201cspice\u201d to your prayer life. For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Monday<\/strong>: Praise \u2013 prayer focused on God\u2019s attributes.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tuesday<\/strong>: Thanksgiving \u2013 prayer focused on the good works and blessings of God towards you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wednesday<\/strong>: Prayer on a Bible passage \u2013 Psalms 23 or Colossians 1:9-12.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Thursday<\/strong>: Intercession \u2013 pray for your family, neighbours, pastor, the government etc.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Friday<\/strong>: Listen \u2013 after reading a short Bible passage aloud, ask God to speak to you through his Word.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Saturday<\/strong>: Personal requests \u2013 speak to God about your spiritual, physical, emotional and other needs\u2026<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sunday<\/strong>: reading and contemplation of the \u201cwhy\u201d prayers which appear in the Bible. We find many of these prayers in Psalms, for example, Psalms 44:24 \u201cWhy do you hide your face and forget our misery and oppression?\u201d; Psalms 74 1, 11 \u201cO God, why have you rejected us forever?\u201d, \u201cWhy do you hold back your hand, your right hand?\u201d. When we are confronted with incomprehensible situations which are difficult to accept, we can share our doubts, disagreements and grievances with God in prayer. It can do us good and comfort us.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">4. I don\u2019t have the time<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I am so busy\u00a0with work, home, family, the Church, exams, hobbies, emails and personal projects etc.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: It isn\u2019t difficult to find 3-5 minutes to pray every day. Choose a moment when you are feeling good, fresh and alert; not at the end of a tiring day when you are exhausted and irritated. Martin Luther said: \u201cI have so much to do that I shall spend the first three hours in prayer.\u201d<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">5. I\u2019m in \u201cspiritual fog\u201d<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sometimes, when I start to pray, I sense an opposition, a wall, discouragement etc. which makes praying difficult.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: this is normal! We are in a spiritual combat against demonic powers (Ephesians 6.12) who don\u2019t like prayer. The forces would like to stop us from praying. When we pray we need to use all of God\u2019s armour (reread Ephesians 6:10-18) to protect ourselves and be on the offensive. John, in his epistle (1 John 4:4), reminds us that \u201cthe one who is in you (the Holy Spirit) is greater than the one who is in the world (the devil)\u201d. On the cross, Jesus vanquished death, sin and the devil. Thanks to his work on the cross, we can proclaim victory in his name.<\/p>\n<p>Behind the name of Jesus is his work and behind his work is his power and authority. I encourage you, at the start of your prayer time, to read aloud a Bible passage which speaks about Jesus\u2019 victory (for example Colossians 2:14-14). Then thank God for this victory. Cite the names of Jesus in your prayer \u2013 I found 150 names for Jesus in the Bible: the Lamb of God, Jesus the good shepherd, Jesus is the Way, Jesus is the source of our deliverance, Jesus is our hope, Jesus is our strength, etc. Notice that Jesus asked his disciples to preach in his name, to baptise in his name, to chase demons in his name and to pray in his name. \u00a0Let\u2019s use the name of Jesus in our prayers.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">6. I haven\u2019t had an answer to my prayers<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I brought up issues close to my heart in prayer and haven\u2019t had an answer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: God never makes mistakes. Receiving no response may mean \u201cno\u201d or \u201cwait\u201d. \u201cNo\u2026 because you have been disobedient\u201d, \u201cNo\u2026 because I have something better for you\u201d, \u201cNo\u2026 because that isn\u2019t part of my plan\u201d\u2026 I found thirteen reasons for why God remains silent. I won\u2019t reveal them here. You can look for them yourself!\u00a0 For now, I\u2019ll let you reflect. I would be interested in hearing your ideas on the subject! \u00a0Why not drop me a note to <a href=\"mailto:seminaires.prieres@gmail.com\">seminaires.prieres@gmail.com<\/a>\u00a0?<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #993366;\">7. I always pray for the same people<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It is good to persevere in prayer for people whom you care deeply about. But it is also a good idea to expand your horizons, open a window on the world.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Small suggestion<\/strong>: buy a map of the world or an atlas, open it and ask God to put a country, region or unreached people who require intercession in your heart. Learn about missionary organisations which work in that country, contact a missionary on the ground, and ask for precise information so you can pray with discernment. You could also ask for a list of people at your church and pray for a different person each day.<\/p>\n<p>Why not join the prayer meeting at your church and intercede with others. Between the ages of 18 and 21, I prayed for France with a group of young Scots\u2026 and God called me to serve in France for the rest of my life! Prayer really is a great adventure!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. 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